- you are to ask permission to leave the room including the reason that you are leaving. This is to be formed as a request for permission, not a statement of where you are going and what your are doing. This rule does not apply beyond the initial use if we have established that you will be in and out of My presence many times over a short period for the same reason, ie. cooking or cleaning. If in the kitchen together, you will specifically ask to use to bathroom. If you leave the room without permission, you will be called back to kneel before Me to ask permission and when granted, you will crawl from the room at which point you may stand.
- you will not sit in My presence without permission. I will indicate if you are to sit at My feet or if you may sit on the furniture. When not together, you may sit on the furniture. At the dinner table, you will sit on a chair. If you sit without permission, you will be made to stand back up and will receive five strikes to your bottom.
- you will kneel to present any food or drink to Me. If you forget to kneel, I will ignore you until you remember to do so, then you will remain kneeling for five minutes with your hands up and ready to hold My cup or plate each time I put it down.
- you will not call to Me from another room. If there is something you need to ask or tell Me, you will come to Me. If I hear you call to Me, I will not answer back. You are to come and apologize then tell Me what you were calling for. After which, you will bring Me the ball gag to put on you to wear for thirty minutes. If you call to tell Me dinner is ready, you will wear the gag while I eat My dinner until I decide you can eat.
- you are to send a good morning message when you get up, including asking permission to have your morning coffee. If you forget to send this message, I expect you to do so, with an apology, as soon as you remember and you will be denied your coffee.
- you will make the bed everyday. If not made, you will make it right away and then will kneel beside the bed with your head lowered and your hands behind your back until I permit you to move or chain you to the bed if I decide you are to stay there a while.
- you will prepare a weekly meal plan and have it ready to show me every Thursday for the following week. If there is something in particular I want, I will tell you so you can work it in.
- you will have the monthly budget as close to finished as can be within the first week of the month and will discuss any necessary details with me. At times, I will give you instructions to find a way to alter the budget to make room for something I want to pick up or do.
- you are to ask permission to speak freely concerning issues related to our relationship. Your journal can be used to freely write down your thoughts, anytime. If I decide you have spoken out of turn too often, you will be placed on full speaking restrictions with the ball gag in place. If punishment is needed, a hard spanking will be given. However, if I ask for your opinion, I am giving you permission to speak freely.
- you will eat three proper meals a day and drink at least one bottle of water daily. You are to ask permission for any sweets or treats. When you are baking, you may check the quality of your goods when necessary.
- you will masturbate and cum only when given permission. If you do so without permission, you will have your ability to move completely restricted while leaving your cunt fully accessible so I can forcibly use it and show you that I control what happens to it.
- you are to remove your panties, at all times, in the fashion you were trained.
- you will not purposely mark or harm your body in any way. you are to talk to me when you first start to feel yourself going in this direct and I will decide what and how we will deal with this together.
- you will not leave the house in the heat of an argument but will stay to talk it through, taking some space in the form of silence if necessary.
May target goals are: permission to leave the room, calling from another room, sitting and eating healthy
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April 2014
- you are to send a good morning message when you get up, including asking permission to have your morning coffee. This will be a way to keep us connected as Sir and girl while apart. If you forget to sent this message, I expect you to do so as soon as you remember with an apology and you will write fifty lines of the following in your journal: "i will remember to message Sir when I wake up." You will have this ready to show Me when I get home.
- you will make the bed everyday. If not made, you will make it right away and then kneel beside the bed with your head lowered and your hands behind your back until I permit you to move.
- you will relinquish your cell phone to Me any time I say. you will give Me all passwords to any accounts you hold. If I see you message someone or reading a message and I ask who it is, you will readily tell Me. If you don't your usage will be cut off for a determined amount of time and permission will be required to use it again for a determined amount of time.
- you will do a section of your workbook and/or write in your journal everyday and in the evening we will discuss it. On occasion when you don’t have a chance during the day to do this, you may do so in the evening once I am home. I will give you topics to write on either for a specific time or to be used on days you don’t have anything in particular you want/need to write down.
- We will use music or podcasts as our background noise rather than the TV. The news can be watched daily, our few select shows can be watched and a maximum of 1 hour in the evening on other days if something of interest is on. Tv can be watched during the day while I am at work, if it does not get in the way of your chores or responsibilities. More time is to be taken for interaction between us, self and relationship learning, ect.
- We will listen to at least one podcast together a week, preferably more, that will give us thoughts and ideas to discuss.
- you will prepare a weekly meal plan and have it ready to show me every Thursday for the following week. If there is something in particular I want, I will tell you before Thursday so you can work it in. This will give us a chance to get to the store on the weekend to pick up any needed ingredients.
- you will have the monthly budget as close to finished as can be within the first week of the month and will discuss any necessary details with me such as, where our savings numbers are at, how we are looking for the month, if I need to be trying to get overtime, and where we may need to make some changes to cover our bases. At times, I will give you instructions to find a way to alter the budget to make room for something I want to pick up or do.
- you are to ask permission to speak freely concerning issues related to our relationship. If there is something you have a strong opinion on, an issue that you feel needs to be discussed, an idea you wish to put forth, ect., if you feel it is something you can talk about from your position as My girl you are to ask if you may speak freely. If it is something that we need to take a step outside ourselves to discuss, you may ask for porch time, in which case a time will be set within 48 hours for us to go for a walk or coffee in order to talk more openly. your journal can be used to freely write down your thoughts. In the beginning, if you speak out of turn you will be reminded. If it continues, you will be placed on full speaking restrictions with the ball gag in place. If punishment is needed, a hard spanking will be given. However, if I ask for your opinion I am giving you permission to speak freely.
- you will eat three proper meals a day and will keep track of what you eat either through your journal or through your calorie tracker. Write it down or enter it right away, not at the end of the day.
- you will masturbate and cum only when given permission. If you do so without permission, you will have your ability to move completely restricted while leaving your cunt fully accessible so I can forcibly use it and show you that I control what happens to it.
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1. you are to keep your hands away from your face.
2. you are to drink at least one large bottle of water each day,
3. you must ask permission for sweets/treats.
4. you are to wait for permission to eat meals when I am with you.
5. you are to complete your chores to the best of your ability. If work disrupts the schedule you will re-assess priorities for that week.
6. you are to update our blog twice per week. I will once per week.
7. you are to wait to be invited into bed.
8. you are to ask for permission to masturbate.
9. you may only cum when given permission, you may ask for permission.
10. you will complete an entry in the Punishment Log after each infraction.
11. you are to follow schedule that I make for us.
