30 Days of Kink

i thought that one way for me to explore my thoughts and feelings about my kink on a deeper level i'd start doing the 30 Days of Kink meme that i've seen floating. i'm don't plan on doing it every day nor do i think i will answer the questions in order or just one at a time. i also definitely don't plan to stop writing about other things that come up in life. The way i kind of think i'm going to use it is when i need to get my posts quota in and i don't feel like having my ass caned-which sometimes is fun too.. winkwink!! So here's the list of questions: Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us. Day 2: List your kinks. Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen. Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. Day 7: What’s your favorite toy? Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic. Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy. Day 10: What are your hard limits? Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink? Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny. Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to? Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ? Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try. Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally? Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up? Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they? Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they? Day 20: Talk about something within kink/BDSM that you’re curious about/don’t understand. Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction) Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship? Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so? Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner? Day 25: How open are you about your kinks? Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play? Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how? Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you? Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general? Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about. i hope to get started on the list soon. Stay tuned and we'll learn more about elle and her kink together!!